Today Show Awareness Campaign

Wednesday, May 25, 2016

We are at the Today Show raising awareness for all of my daughter's health conditions:
Ehlers Danlos (a connetive Tissue disorder), Dysautonomia (an autonomic nervous system disorder), Cold and Heat Urticaria (an allergy like disorder to temperatures), and Idiopathic Hypersomnia (a sleeping disorder).

To learn more about these disorders, please visit:
Http://www.ednf.org Ehlers Danlos Foundation
Http://www.alabamaedsers.org
Http://www.dysautonomiainternational.org
Http://www.dinet.org
Http://www.coldallergy.org
Http://www.hypersomniafoundation.org

Learn more about the spoon theory:
http://www.butyoudontlooksick.com/articles/written-by-christine/the-spoon-theory/




Sunday, July 5, 2015

Vitamins are the new Medications

Every since I heard about 23andMe and Ancestry DNA, I wanted to have my daughter tested.  Genetic tests are highly specific and very costly.  After several years and assurances in the validity of testing, we completed the testing through 23andMe.com.  Their tests sequence the genome for variations that deviate from the expected results.  These are referred to as polymorphisms.

23andMe, by law, is only allowed to report on ancestry, not medical issues.  However, there are a variety of websites that will interpret the data for you.  We chose livewello.com.  After a small payment for use of the site, we uploaded a file which we previously downloaded from 23andMe. Livewello was able to provide a report for us on the medical side.  The results are in a pdf format and deliver a specific number of genes both with and without polymorphisms.  The location of the polymorphism is identified by a Single Nucleotide Polymorphism (SNP) number. In the PDF, Livewello provides a general description of each SNP reported as either Homozygous (a variation from each parent) or Heterozygous (a variation from only one parent).  Having a variation either Homo or Heterozygous does not guarantee a fault in a gene.  Some polymorphisms can be turned on or off based on other contributing factors. Now you don't have to stop at just the SNP's reported in the standard report.  You can find other SNP's and plug them into what is referred to as the SandBox on Livewello to provide results from other areas of your genome.  For example, I want to see if my daughter has the propensity to have Familial Atypical Cold Urticaria (FACU).  I can google SNP's for this condition, plug them into the SandBox, and receive a report on the polymorphisms just for this condition.

My daughter's report was eye opening.  There were multiple Homozygous SNP's for Allergies, Methylation, Detox, etc.  I researched each and everyone of them.  Even though there are no known polymorphisms for Ehlers Danlos Syndrome Type III, Dysautonomia, Myoclonus and Idiopathic Hypersomnia, we were able to find polymorhism that when put together create a picture for each of these issues.

It was tough to wrap my head around all of the information being provided.  I quickly found a website for Amy Yasko dealing with Methylation issues and Autism.  This site, though very enlightening, was still just too much to understand all at once.

This leg of our journey has just started.  We want to share it with you.  Just maybe someone could be helped by the information provided.

Thursday, April 3, 2014

When Life Seems Too Much and Every One Around You is Sick


Please allow me to encourage you the best way I can.  First, find time to take care of yourself when ever you can even if it is for just a moment here and there.  Second, all this is probably the worst that you will have to deal with at the same time.  Though it does not seem like it, it is all temporary.  It will get manageable for you, your spouse and sick child.

When my daughter first started showing signs of three rare conditions, I had just changed jobs to a great place.  During this time, my father-in-law passed away, within two weeks of that my husband struggled for a week to stay alive.  Within those next three years, we had over eleven close family members die including my mother in law.  My husband went through two additional near death experiences with severe health problems in between each one.  My daughter's health continued to decline through it all with doctors telling us we did not know what we were talking about and that we just need psych help.

We are now on the other side.  Neither my daughter nor my husband is cured.  But, we have found doctors that could help them both and have made life much easier on us all.  Times do get tough, but they do get better too.

The best things we have chosen to do include:
1) take our daughter out of public school and homeschool her.  My husband and I both work fulltime so don't think that should stop you.  We have really good software that does all the teaching and grading.  My daughter can take her time with her studies and takes many breaks, but she is not behind and there is no longer any pressure.
2) Also, when you can, take a break from all the medical doctors.  Find a point when everyone's health is stable, just take as much time off as possible until you are able regain your strength both physically and emotionally.
3) Change your expectations from what you always dreamed of life being like, to how you can best live your lives now.  Are the health issues a road block that you can work your way around, or are they a dead end pointing you in another direction?
4) Go get a massage, even if it is only a thirty minute hand massage.  You wouldn't believe how wonderful you can feel in those 30 minutes.
5) Help your child plug into groups online with others her age dealing with the same thing.  It always helps to talk it out and be able to help others.
6) Find alternative entertainment.  My daughter plays baseball, but it is with the Miracle League.  With this league you come and go as you need.  If you can only play ten minutes, great, everyone supports you.
7) Lastly, don't be afraid to cry.  It is okay.  Much of your stress will pour out with the tears allowing you to buck up and take on the world once again.

It all makes a difference.  It all helps to diffuse everyone's worries and stress.

Friday, March 7, 2014

The Monster Has Been Brought to its Knees

Have you ever had a sinus headache?  I get them often, quite severely.  I have found that pressing just above the nerves will block the pain signals to the brain for as long as I apply pressure.  With Myoclonus, Myoclonic Jerks, specifically, I wanted to see if I could attempt the say technique on my daughter to give her some relief from the jerking spasms which she endures.  Not only did it block while pressure was applied, but it was successful at short circuiting the signals and stopping the jerks altogether.

Oh what joy!  We have found a way to bring the monster to its knees. I have highlighted the pressure areas in the picture below.  For neck and shoulder jerks, I applied gentle but firm pressure to the bundle of nerves as they enter the shoulder.  If only one side of the body is affected, I have to apply pressure to that one side.  I apply pressure until the jerking stops.  This pressure point will not affect breathing or blood flow.  If her position is ineffective or affects breathing and/or blood flow, I move my hands around.  

The same process would occur for the hips and legs that jerk.  The bundle branch of nerves come from the spine, through the fatty part of the buttocks to the legs.  I place the palm of my hand into this bundle, wait for the jerks to stop or come to a very slow tempo, then release. I feel the nerve pulses fight against me, but they do stop.  The harder the signals are, the longer it will take for them to subside.  If the jerks occur on both sides simultaneously, I will have to apply pressure to both sides at the same time otherwise it is much harder to get them to stop.  Once the signals stop on one side I can release and maintain pressure on the other side until they all stop.  My daughter has immediate relief once they subside.

In either case of the upper or lower body being affected, if the jerks do not stop, I move my hands around until I notice a reduction in the intensity of the signals.

My daughter says that it hurts and is uncomfortable, but she would rather that little bit of pain than have the jerks for hours on end.

Blessings to you and hope you find some relief!


Credit to Zygote Body for the use of the picture below.


Tuesday, February 18, 2014

An Article About Our Family Fighting Dysautonomia

Here is the link to the Dinet newsletter:

http://www.dinet.org/images/newsletters/2014_Spring_Dinet_Newsletter.pdf

Check out their website if you have not been there or have not visited in awhile.  They have a great leadership and provide awesome information and support for all their members.

We are the Champions!

We are the champions - my friends
And we'll keep on fighting - till the end
We are the champions 
We are the champions
No time for losers
'Cause we are the champions - of the world
                              

Do you remember these lyrics, this song.  We fight everyday, but regardless of each battle along the way, no matter how disarming a new symptom or issue may be, We are the champions.  The battle is here and now, but the war is already won.  We will enjoy fellowship with our redeemer who promises no more tears, no more pain and an eternal presence with Him in the most beautiful place in existence.

We can hold on through every hardship because He already paid the price on the cross.  He loves us and wants an eternal fellowship with us.  All we have to do is believe in His son's death, burial and resurrection.  In believing we exercise faith through belief.  We express faith through actions of love.

Are you interested in such a relationship?  Let me know, I will introduce you.  A Christian life is not easy, we struggle just as much, and in some cases more so than non-believers.  There are people who are persecuted for this love.

We have a testimony of God blessing our daughter and our family through some terrible health and life experiences.  We just need to stay focused on Him.  Unlike the message in the song, we are champions not because of our own efforts, but because of those from our Lord and Savior!

Blessings!

Friday, February 14, 2014

The Scary Monster Has Appeared

Do you remember when you were a kid, laying in bed at night, wide awake, in the dark, allowing your imagination to get the best of you, the one of the monster under your bed?  You knew that once the light came on he would be wielded powerless and would just disappear.  But in the dark, he was all powerful, kept you frozen with fear.

Our monster has appeared from the dark.It is all powerful, even in the light.

As a baby, my daughter had chronic ear infections.  Each time the pediatrician would prescribe ear drop antibiotics to clear up the infection and it worked well.

Fast forward a few years, a few infections and a few more treatments and suddenly with each drop placed in the ears, you have a new condition.  You start having seizure like jerking.  This happened to my daughter.  We stopped the ear drops and refused to ever use them again because we knew that they caused the jerks each time they occurred.  As time went by the jerks began to diminish.  They were never completely gone, but at a level that they were not so scary, they were manageable.  For three years, the monster refused to come out into the light. Each time he tried, we were bigger and scarier than him.  Until now, three years later.


 The jerks have returned just as vicious as ever. 

In hopes of helping others understand this rare condition, I posted in several places across the internet about the condition.  It is rare disease month.  In doing so, it caught the attention of someone else.  Though her medication was never mentioned, the information she sent me startled me, it sent shivers down my spine.  We now know that we did this, we did it to our daughter and it is permanent.  The information that she posted was about Flourquinolones and the devastating effects that they have on the body.  As soon as I saw the word quinolone, it struck my memory that this word was used in the description of my daughter's medication, the ear drops.  This medication causes a deterioration of the connective tissue around the nerves.  Most people can handle a mile case of this deterioration, but someone that already has a connective tissue disorder, the condition has devastating affects.  Some people fall victim to the devastating affects after only one treatment, others it can happen after several treatments.  The effects may not appear right away, it can be months to even years later. 

What did my daughter use?  It was Ciprodex, simple little ear drops.  Who/what is the big scary monster? It is the drug, it is the drug company, it is greed, it is the unwillingness to admit the truth when damage is done to own up to it and take the drug off the market.  Do the research, flourquinolones don't just come as ear drops, they come in pill forms as well and may come in other forms.  It is an antibiotic. Even though it worked well with the ear infections, keep in mind that the effects are devastating and permanent.  Hopefully together we can squash this monster down to size and prevent this from happening to anyone else.

Friday, February 7, 2014

Ehlers Danlos Our New Best Friend

March marks almost two years since my daughter first started doing well with her Dysautonomia treatments.  She improved even more since this last October.  During the doctor's visit that month, her doctor told us that she would improve even more, but new symptoms/issues would arise.  They were always there, but they took backseat to all the other issues from the Dysautonomia.

He was right.  My daughter began having increased trouble with her joints.  We have gone to the doctors many times and even avoided going many times because of sprained joints.  She once again started showing an increase in having problems in her legs and feet.  The reason this just started showing up again?  She was now out of a wheelchair and using them normally again.  The stress was too much though.  After returning to the geneticist, we discovered that she had diagnosed my daughter two years earlier with Ehlers Danlos.

Our new focus is our new best friend.  My daughter has started doing physical theraphy specific for patients with Ehlers Danlos.  It has truly been an eye opening experience to see how weak and deconditioned her muscles are.  Thankfully, there is a physical therapist that knows Ehlers Danlos well and has treated others with it for years now.  He is very understanding and very easy to work with.

Our new best friend has really opened our eyes to other problems that she has been having all along.  It is like having a puzzle, the comparative picture is covered in dirt and you just can't figure out the pieces and create a picture as it should be.  Suddenly, somebody comes and cleans all that dirt off of the comparative picture and it all comes clear to you.  You had the right idea, it was just upside down.

We have to learn to see things differently, we have to learn to live life differently; afterall, best friends are forever.

What a Big Jerk!

Back when I was in the 8th Grade, we were treated to a camp day.  It was nearing the end of the year and symbolized the transition between middle school and high school.  At the end of the day a presentation was put on by a group in our class.  It was about a lawn mower that would not get started and run.  Members were asked to come up from the audience and start the mower.  The first couldn't.  The second person tried harder, but still couldn't.  The third person tried really hard pulling on the cord and finally got it started.  The final comment of the presentation was, "Thank you, [so and so], we knew it would take a Really Big Jerk to get it started." The joke was on the student, not a recognition of his strength.

For my daughter, she is officially in the club of those that suffer from Myoclonic Jerks.  It is no joke.  Sadly, the body goes through what we perceive to be giant, full-body hiccups.  "The Jerks," as we so unaffectionately refer to them decided to pay her a visit three years ago during the time she had a bad ear infection that would not go away.  Every time we put drops in her ears the jerking would begin.  They were physically quite violent for her.  Sadly, they did not go away when we stopped the ear drops.  She would have periods of rest, but never a day went by that she didn't have an issue with them.

We took her to the ER when they started during one of her private music lessons.  She couldn't even walk out of the room, I had to drag her to the hall then get a wheelchair.  Once we got to the ER, they immediately took her in.  By this time she was having upwards of four to six jerks a second.  They were very hard, very fast and attacked her whole body. The ER docs were in a panic to find out what was wrong.  Then out of nowhere, they stopped.  The doctors went ahead and gave her some meds and home we went.  The ear infection lasted for about a month and the jerks for a couple of months longer.

She did see her neurologist, had a brain scan for three consecutive nights making it possible to determine that she was not having seizures along with the Myoclonus.  The doctor did put her on some Klonopin each night to help keep them under control.

After the jerks subsided, we only saw them in small spurts.  Anytime TLC had a pain or became cold, she would begin having the jerks, mild in strength and repetition.  Sometimes it would only be one jerk and other times she might go for a half hour.  The jerks mostly just affected her neck and her arm at this time.  For three years following, it rarely got bad.

A year ago, we had an attempted home invasion during the middle of the night.  The Jerks had started just prior to that; however, they became very intense for a couple months following. The doctor was not worried about it and we continued her as before.  Within three months they again went away.  She was off the Klonopin at the time and had been for quite sometime prior.  We ended up putting her back on it to keep her stable.

Well, this week it returned and we don't know why.  She is still on her Klonopin, is not sick and is not in pain or persistently cold.   But this time I noticed two different types of events with the jerks.  One that is what we refer to as aggressive, they are there then they are gone, usually just a small cluster of jerks.  The second was less aggressive, very mild, but constant without a break.  It only affected the left side of her body and it was like she was "chair" dancing to the music being played in the room.  It continued for an hour and then went away.  Even though they were not hard jerks, they were constant almost to a tempo and exhausting.

They come whenever they want, during her sleep at night, during the day, during stressful times and during really fun times.  They can be as simple as a finger or eyelid twitch, very hard and painful hiccups to full-body episodes that look like Grand Mal seizures.  She can't make them happen and she can't make them stop. She said they hurt even more to try and make them stop.  There is just no control over them.  And, in our opinion, they are "Really Big Jerks."

Just another stop along our journey, in rare company.

To see a short video of her having a mild jerking episode in her sleep, click here.
The video above shows a mild version of a full body episode.  The jerks are sudden and very painful.  She has been to the ER at one point with these being ten times as fast and much harder.

The video below shows her having a slightly different episode which occurs constantly, the jerking is milder and it can last anywhere between 30 minutes and two hours.  It also only occurs on her left side. The one in this video lasted for one hour. The jerks were focused in her hip; however, you can see a jerk that was focused in her neck a couple times as well.
http://youtu.be/rcHZ4uhr1Gs 

Wednesday, November 20, 2013

So you think your child may have Dysautonomia?

Though I am not promoting self diagnosis of your child, I do support empowering parents with knowledge and knowing how to move forward when wondering if their child may have Dysautonomia.

Dysautonomia affects the autonomic nervous system (ans).  Dysautonomia can be presented differently in each person that has it, even for identical twins and between parent and child.  The information I present will be based on my daughter's reactions and some of the most common reactions that can occur.  Dysautonomia is not a diagnosis on its own, but a consortium of diagnoses for conditions related directly to the ANS.  Having one or two of these issues does not point toward having Dysautonomia, but having several can lead you in the right direction to a specific diagnosis.

It is very rare for children to have Dysautonomia and never diagnosed prior to the teen years.  Only recently has my daughter's doctor started diagnosing children as young as nine years old.

We knew that our daughter was different as a new born, but could not connect these differences to anything in particular.  As far as we knew, she was perfectly healthy and had symptoms that other babies could have.

Sleeping Through the Night
Our first clue that something was different was that she was sleeping for four to six hours as a newborn. The doctor complained about her sleeping more than a couple of hours at a time and the need to wake her up and feed her.  It was difficult to wake her up and when she did wake up, she would eat very little or not want to eat.  I knew that this was not right, but she was hitting all of her growth and weight milestones.  Well, weight was an issue as she was in the 10 percentile, but the doctor said not to worry as she was gaining weight.  As she got older, she began sleeping up to 15 hours a day.  This was not the normal pre-teen/teenager stay up late and sleep all day.  She would sleep all night and all day.  This was diagnosed as Hypersomnia.

Blue Legs When Held Up Right
Our second clue was that she had blue legs when held upright.  As soon as she was returned to a non-restrictive recumbent position, the blueness went away. At first I thought that people were holding her too tightly and cutting off her circulation.  However, it happened even when I held her.  I quickly learned to always hold her (as a baby) in the recumbent position.  As she got older, we lost track of her legs being blue, but about the age of 10 we started noticing it again and realized that it was the same issue as when she was a baby.  We have come to know this condition as Acrocyanosis.

Projectile Vomiting
Another prominent problem was projectile vomiting. No matter how she was fed or what she was fed, she always vomited her food clear across the room. Even as she grew older she continued to have vomiting after she ate. By the time she was three, it was in better control, it did not happen with every meal; however, we never knew when it would happen.  As a baby, she was test and diagnosed and treated for Pyloric Stenosis.  When she was older, she was diagnosed with Gastroparesis.
 
Early Satiety
In conjunction with the vomiting, our daughter had an inability to eat a normal amount of food, this is called early satiety. She could eat a very small amount and would stop. If she ate too much, she would have stomach cramps and begin vomiting.  We were turned into DHR when she was a year old for child abuse because she ate so little. This was one time that DHR did an investigation and found no signs of abuse because she was on the plump side and well cared for.  This was related to the Gastroparesis mentioned in the previous paragraph.

Frequent Infections
Our daughter had frequent bacterial and fungal infections that affected her ears, her urinary tract, her digestive tract and her skin. She frequently had mouth ulcers, ringworm, and upper respiratory infections.  She has had the flu twice, once when she was three weeks old and the second time when she was seven years old. However, though being heavily exposed to the flu on several occasions she has not had it in the last eight years and she has not acquired the chicken pox.

High Heart Rate
A child's heart rate is much higher than that of an adults.  For a girl, it is typically around 140 when born and for a boy slightly less.  I did not notice any issues in her heart rate as a baby; however, when she was seven or eight, I started taking notice that her heart rate was not coming down.  It was a couple years later before I started asking the doctor about her heart rate.  At the time, they would tell me that it was at the high end of normal, but still normal.  Each time they took her pulse she was sitting down.  About a year later, I found out about POTS and asked the doctor to take her heart rate both sitting and standing.  The nurse that took her pulse could not get it while my daughter stood up because her blood pressure dropped.  Once she found the heart beat could not believe that it was so high and declared that the equipment was broke.  I reminded her that she could take a pulse manually.  She did, again and declared that nothing was wrong.

Low Body Temperature and Low Blood Pressure
Our daughter maintained a low body temperature around 96 degrees.  She also maintained a low blood pressure (90/50 average).  We really did not know about this until she was in her preteens when the doctors we visited started recording them by our request.

Leg Pains (Not Growing Pains)
From the time that she could stand and walk, she always wanted to be carried. She complained of her legs hurting.  She never wanted to go anywhere for fear of being there a long time--standing. Everywhere she went, she was slow, always last and took forever. We thought she was being social or too chatty. It turns out it was always a delay tactic. Delaying the inevitable, standing and walking.

We were somewhat oblivious to there being a problem as she began dancing at two years old and continued for years. She was always active. One day when going through pictures from our church's VBS program, I noticed one picture in particular where she was outside at a table with one of the leaders working on a project while the rest of the group was playing competitively in the adjoining field. I asked her about it and she could not explain why. That is when I started worrying what was wrong.

At this time I started noticing more of her complaints regarding her legs, her sitting down more often, avoiding trips to the store, and taking breaks at dance.  By the time she was eleven, she struggled in dance and began spraining joints regularly. This is when we started taking her to the doctor to figure out what was wrong. By the time she was twelve, she was in a wheelchair. Her dreams for dancing were dashed.  When she was in her teens, she received a diagnosis of Orthostatic Intolerance.

She was early for all her milestones except walking. Though she was not terribly late walking, it was the last one attained and late compared to all the others.

No sweating
Most babies don't sweat and usually don't start until around puberty.  Our daughter never did sweat, even as a competitive dancer who practiced for six hours a week.  We later found that she had Hypohydrosis.  It was specifically because of this condition that we eventually found out by our daughter having Dysautonomia.  For others, there can be an issue with excessive sweating, in our case, it was the opposite.

Other Possible Clues
I don't know if these are clues of her condition; however, they were very unusual. She was very alert as a baby, even in the first few weeks, it was like she was studying everyone and everything.  She did not cry very often and was very easy going.

Just and FYI -
There are many more conditions and symptoms related to Dysautonomia including migraines, passing out, sensitivity to sound and light, muscle weakness (floppy baby syndrome), etc.  Research everything you can and if you believe that your child has Dysautonomia don't stop going to the doctor and getting the right answers.  We only found out when realizing that my daughter's diagnosis for Cholinergic and Cold Urticaria did not address all of her problems and kept telling the doctors that she did not sweat.  It took 12 years to get their attention and a confirmed diagnosis and an additional three years to get a successful treatment for many of her issues.

My daughter not only has Dysautonomia (Orthostatic Intolerance and POTS), but also has Cholinergic Urticaria (Exercise and Heat Induced), Cold Induced Urticaria and Ehlers Danlos Syndrome III.

Wednesday, October 30, 2013

Walking the Walk Part II

With much anxiety, we returned to our journey of seeing doctors attempting to get answers. To our amazement, the first leg of our journey went very smoothly. We found a local specialist for our daughter's Dysautonomia. He changed her meds which has given her a new lease on life. She is no longer chained to excessive sleepiness and excruciating pain when standing from the blood pooling. The jerks are very minimal. They are now being expressed as aggressive hiccups, but not as bad as before.

We took the second leg in our journey attempting to get a diagnosis for the joint issues.  To our amazement, the doctor had diagnosed our daughter two years ago with Ehlers Danlos.  Sadly we were never informed. I was so exhausted at the time from bad doctors visits that I never even asked for a copy of her records. Regardless, having this answer right off the bat was such a relief. We were able to get a script for physical therapy from a physical therapist who understands what you can and cannot do with someone with this condition.  We are currently trying to find someone locally, if not, we will just travel back north at least monthly for her to learn what she needs to do.

Do you know what a relief it is to have answers? It is amazing. We may not like the answers, but we now know how to work with our daughter to give her the support she needs. We now know that there are answers out there. I know that I will forever take my husband on appointments with us, he is now our rabbit's foot. Every time he is with us, we get answers.

Wednesday, September 11, 2013

Medicating for Cold Urticaria

No one medicine that you or a child can take on a daily basis will prevent you from breaking out to cold once you have CU.  As a matter of fact, researchers have found the best outcomes come when mixing two or more (H1 and H2) histamine blockers.  They have also found a marked improvement in reactions when Singulair is combined with at least two antihistamines.  In English, H1 blockers are your everyday antihistamine allergy meds.  H2 blockers are antacids. 

In most studies, they have found that Cyproheptadine (Periactin), Hydroxizine (Atarax) and Montelukast (Singulair) provide the best control on the majority of patients; however, doctors never start out using these meds due to their side effects.  For children, doctors will start with over the counter meds and preferably with non-sedating meds like Claritin and Allegra.  For individuals with more complex reactions and/or are resistant to these meds, doctors start working their way to more powerful meds and those that are sedating. 

Any given combination that works for one person is not guaranteed for another person.  If you don't find what works for you keep working with your doctor to try other combinations.  As a child grows, they will out grow their dosing, so if a med stops working, talk to the doctor and find out if doses can be increased or determine if your child needs a new med.

Also, when a medication causes drowsiness, a doctor will usually suggest you or your child taking it before bed time; however, some will experience the drowsiness at the time of waking up or early in the morning as the medication is wearing off.  You may find moving the time the med is taken to earlier in the day (2 hours earlier) so that the wearing off of the med occurs during the night, the child will feel much better in the morning.

In our experience, no medication and no combination of medications prevents all reactions; however, the difference in what they do prevent is the difference between being functional and non-functional.  Preventing reactions is a multi-tiered approach involving medications, preventative actions in where you go and how you dress and knowing when to just say, "no, I can't do it."

Tuesday, September 3, 2013

First Step in Walking the Walk

>> Previous Post >>TLC is now able to visit a clinic just over a hundred miles away that is specific to Dysautonomia.  As we do this, we are cutting ties with the neurologist at Children's.  We hope that there are not any changes to her existing meds as they are all working just fine.  However, we do want to have a doctor to consult with locally that knows and understands what is going on with her nervous system issues.  We have heard from some that they will only be able to work with the Dysautonomia and will not be able to help with the Cold / Heat Urticaria and the Ehlers Danlos.  However, this will be a big improvement over a doctor that does not know anything about any of them and can only try to treat the symptoms.>>>>

We had completed the first leg in our journey of Walking the Walk.  A week ago Monday, we visited the Dysautonomia Clinic.  Our journey began at 5:00 a.m. leaving home with a destination that is only an hour and a half away, but due to much traffic, we arrived three hours later.  One minute prior to our daughter's appointment, now knowing where to go in the building and toting bags of medical records, pillows and a change of clothes to exercise in.  We were the first ones there, but we made it.

We all went into the nurses office.  She asked many questions, some no's, but many yes'.  As her parents, we returned to the waiting room. Our daughter was wisked away for autonomic testing.  Her dad and I remained in the waiting room until the testing was completed.  Even though she is fifteen, I have always been with her at her appointments, this was one of the few rare cases I was not.  It left me a little nervous.

The nurse came and guided me to the doctor's office, my daughter sitting uncomfortably in a gown directly in front of the doctor.  In a slow, calm manner, he began asking some of the same questions and going over the test results all at the same time.  He was in his 70's a little feeble looking, he kept asking some of the same questions over.  I allowed my daughter to answer all the questions that she could with out me interjecting.  However, there were times the brain fog crept in.  It was difficult for her, she was either confused or forgetful.  I answered when I could.  I soon realized, he was testing her brain fog.

On entering of the tests, her heart rate was 126 and during exercise quickly rose to 176.  Based on the testing, we found that her current heart medication was not working.  Despite his first thoughts to increase the dosage, based on other factors, he decided to change her medication.  He calmly explained the change and that most with DYS respond well to the Beta Blocker.  He also suggested two other medications.  One she had taken before which would both help her sleep and also prevent the jerks.  The second would balance the chemicals in the brain and also help her sleep better thus preventing her hypersomnia.

He wants us to follow up with him and keep him aware of how she is doing.  He knows the meds may have to be adjusted and is willing and ready at any given time.  He tells us that the Seratonin will take two or three weeks to really work its way into her system before an improvement would be noticed.

We are now one week out from the appointment.  The first full night of meds was like a miracle being performed.  TLC slept the entire night through and woke up at 7:00 a.m. without an alarm or being told to wake up.  This has continued every morning since.  Her heart rate remains about 80 bpm, blood pressure is stable and no Jerks.  She did not know what to do to fill all this extra time she is awake.  Not just up and moving around, but truly AWAKE.  The first day she talked nearly non-stop.  That has stopped, but she is once again like a "normal" person.

Where we once feared that she would not be able to drive or go to college and pursue her dreams, the possibilities are now endless for her.

Despite this appointment being just about Dysautonomia, there is some hope that this will improve her Cold Urticaria in that it will reduce her breaking out and/or raise her cold tolerance threshold.  We give so little, yet ask so much.

Thank you, Lord, for your many blessings.  We love you and remain faithful during the difficult times and we choose the same during the good times.  May we continue to honor you in all we do!

Monday, July 8, 2013

A Beauty Quickly Fading

This journey is not ours alone.  It is shared.

A couple years ago, we met a beautiful young lady.  She was at the State Fair in a booth showing/advertising her well trained dog.  She was part of a program that trained dogs for therapy, her standard poodle was her therapy dog.  This young girl had E. B.,Epidermolysis Bullosa.   Her arms and legs were wrapped for protection.  Her dog was there for her support.  But she didn't just take, she gave back.  How courageous she was to be seen at the fair looking "different" than everyone else, standing out in the crowd.  She had spunk and energy that did not waiver.  She suffered a great deal of pain that no one could take from her.  Despite this, she showed courage, strength and a giving nature.  This is where beauty comes from, it comes from how we handle our situations in life.  We can be courageous or we can be cowards.  Which ever path we choose, it will shine through on the outside.

I am so glad that even though I did not get a chance to know her well, I was able to share the journey with such a beautiful young lady.  Her life was cut short.  May God bless her and her family.

 Has your life beaten you down? Are you a beauty that has faded? Or, do you choose to beat your circumstances down?  Do you refuse to fade, but to stand out in spite of all else?

Friday, June 28, 2013

Walking the Walk - Again!

We are starting our journey of visiting doctors once again, walking the walk.  When every we take this path along our journey, it feels like we are walking on a tight rope over a raging gorge.

TLC is now able to visit a clinic just over a hundred miles away that is specific to Dysautonomia.  As we do this, we are cutting ties with the neurologist at Children's.  We hope that there are not any changes to her existing meds as they are all working just fine.  However, we do want to have a doctor to consult with locally that knows and understands what is going on with her nervous system issues.  We have heard from some that they will only be able to work with the Dysautonomia and will not be able to help with the Cold / Heat Urticaria and the Ehlers Danlos.  However, this will be a big improvement over a doctor that does not know anything about any of them and can only try to treat the symptoms.

We have also made an appointment with the Geneticist to get more help with the Ehlers Danlos.  TLC is now having problems with nearly every joint subluxating with every movement.  Currently her neck, shoulders, wrists, fingers, vertebrae, hips, knees and ankles are all affected.  She is still finding new tricks that she can do.  She needs braces that will help prevent the movement of her joints from sliding around.

TLC now has a new symptom and we will be going to see an eye specialist today to rule out all the "bad" causes.  It appears to be Retinal Migraines.  A lot of people I have talked to have had trouble with them in both their eyes.  TLC only has them in one eye right now.  Because it is in only one eye, it is commonly triggered by some bad sources.  We are praying that it is not and like so many others will eventually improve and go away.

Doctors are almost always difficult to work with; some get it, but most don't.  Some already have the answers with total disregard for what is actually going on.  Some are just plain crazy.  Rare is the doctor that listens, that researches, that truly wants to research and make things better, even when the answers in their books don't work.

This is our journey and we are walking the walk, once again!

Enjoying the Simple Things Amidst the Chaos

We have had so much going on in the last few days.  We just wanted to share with you another step along our journey of dealing with Dysautonomia, Cold Urticaria and Ehlers Danlos.

People with Chronic Illnesses such as these or all don't get to go out much and participate in what all life has to offer.  Despite this, we have found that life can be just as enjoyable at home, with family and enjoying what we can one thing/event at a time.

Don't get me wrong, we do make attempts to go out. When we do, we are always prepared to leave if the activity/event becomes overwhelming.

Recently, we were invited to a suite view of our local baseball team.  We were able to sit inside and block out the noise when it was too loud outside from the concert prior to the game. And praise God, the weather was absolutely perfect.  As the suite became too cold, and the concert transitioned into a game of America's favorite past-time, we were able to sit on the balcony and take it all in.  Then when it came time for fireworks, we were able to go inside and avoid hearing all the loud booms which would surely have sent my daughter's nervous system into overdrive.  We made it...through the whole evening of activity and enjoyed it all.

Last night we had the opportunity to go to the Capital Sounds Band's summer concert.  We attempted to sit all the way in the back of the theater, behind the speakers, but despite really good sound control, it was just too loud.  The myoclonic jerks started only mildly, but we had to go somewhere quieter or leave.  On our way out, we found a sitting room just outside the women's restroom and sat in there to enjoy the music.  Unfortunately, it smelled like a bathroom so we left at intermission.  We enjoyed what we could and we were content as it was more than what we can usually participate in.

Later in the night there was an attempted home invasion.  Fortunately, the men were scared off and there was no harm, other than us being wakened at 1:00 a.m. and the fear driving my daughter's nerves once again shot into orbit.  For the second time in one day, she experienced what we so un-lovingly refer to as the Jerks; Myoclonic Jerks that is.

Borrowed from Wikipedia

"Myoclonic jerks may occur alone or in sequence, in a pattern or without pattern. They may occur infrequently or many times each minute. Most often, myoclonus is one of several signs in a wide variety of nervous system disorders such as multiple sclerosis, Parkinson's disease, Alzheimer's disease, subacute sclerosing panencephalitis and Creutzfeldt-Jakob disease (CJD), serotonin toxicity, some cases of Huntington's disease, some forms of epilepsy, and occasionally in intracranial hypotension. Some researchers indicate that jerks persistently may even cause early tremors."

My description:
Jerks are like giant hiccups.  They can affect just the head, arm, leg or they can affect the whole body at once.  TLC has had it affect the whole body.  But yesterday, it was just in her neck.  It is terrifying and can be very painful especially when the jerks are hard and sudden.  For my daughter, they can be triggered by an overloaded sensory function such as intense fear, pain anywhere in her body, and for her being cold.

We enjoy life and are content with the little we can be a part of.  Check out the post previous to this one and you will see why.  Our God is the master healer and though healing may not occur this side of Glory, it will come and last for an eternity.  May you be blessed and enjoy the simple things in life.

The Healing


Then your light will break forth like the dawn, and your healing will quickly appear; your righteousness will go before you and the glory of the Lord will be your rear guard. Then you will call and the Lord will answer; you will call for help and He will say: "Here am I."

Isaiah 58:8-9


 

The Healing

Cancer is a tough disease—not just for the person who has it, but for their family also. When first diagnosed with it, many people feel their life is over. Although family and friends try to make life easier, it’s still hard for them to fully understand the pain the person goes through, both physically and emotionally. Often, the person with cancer can feel like they’ve hit bottom and have only two choices: give up and die, or rely on God for their healing.

That was the case of the woman with the serious bleeding problem in Matthew 9:20-22. Having had this condition for over twelve years, she knew she only had two options and she wasn’t willing to die. Instead, she put her faith in the One who claimed to be the Son of God. Having faith in Him, she stretched out her hand and touched the hem of his robe, and was instantly healed. Did his robe have some magical healing power? No. Was her healing caused by something she did? Yes…but only in the sense that she—having no other option—reached out to the only one that could save her.

Her healing finally came after many years of searching. God can use people in the medical profession or He can do miracles. You can trust Him to heal you, no matter how long or what form it takes. Ultimately, God wants to heal you as much as you want to be healed. Once you trust the One your healing comes from, you will not be disappointed!

Today’s One Thing

Although God often uses man to heal, trust in God alone for perfect, complete healing.

Going Deeper

Jeremiah 33:6; Malachi 4:2; Luke 6:17-19; Revelation 22:1-3
 

This is shared from an email that

I received from IntentionalLiving.com

Thursday, May 30, 2013

Go Ahead and Cry

In 2007, my father-in-law passed away following his third heart attack.  Two weeks later, my husband had his first heart attack.  Everything went well for my husband as he recovered, he practically danced out of the hospital the next day.  Not long following my husband's successful recovery, he had to return for a follow up procedure to add one more stint to a nearly blocked artery.   His return visit was nearly his last.

I sat in the waiting room with family and pastor waiting for the procedure to end expecting to waltz out of the hospital the next day.  There was no damage to the heart from the mild attack.  There should have been no complications from the current procedure. I had prepared myself that the procedure could go longer than expected. I had no fear when it did.  I could hear the doctor's name being paged multiple times over the intercom.  I thought his office was trying to get a hold of him. I never thought that is was my husband barely hanging on to life.

The doctor's primary nurse came out and told me that there were complications and they were having trouble resuscitating my husband.  An hour or so later, the doctor came down and confirmed that they were still having trouble.  The doctor could not even look me in the eye to tell me.  He suggested that we go up to ICU to see my husband, just in case.

Before we left, I cried.  People that I didn't even know came up to me to console me, to tell me that as a Christian, I could put my trust in Christ to take care of him, that I could put my hope in deliverance by grace.  They told me that I did not have to cry.  Those with hope don't cry.  To keep from making more of a spectacle of myself, and to alleviate the fears of those around me, I quickly wiped the tears away.

My husband was in the hospital for a week recovering and during that time I lived in the waiting room.  On one occasion, I walked down the hall, sat down and had an all out cry.  Every thought, every stored emotion poured out.  No one was around.  I did not have to think about anyone else.  I was able to unleash the frustrations and fears and deal with them one at a time through the tears.  Crying is okay.  Crying is therapeutic and brings you in touch with raw, honest emotions.  I was able to bring closure to these emotions and begin to build a bridge toward a healthy touch with reality.

As a mom with a child that has three rare conditions, Cold Urticaria, Dysautonomia and Ehlers Danlos, I consistently face frustrations dealing with changes in symptoms, changes in medications, doctors, schools, church leadership and friends that don't understand.  For every step I make forward, I fall two steps backward.  There are times I am scared, times I am mad, times I am crushed and I times I don't know what to give.  But, I have always left myself open for when it all becomes too much, to step away from the crowd and have a good cry.

When I am done, my mind is clear, my resolve is stronger and as a mother of a special needs child, I am ready to take on her world once again.  Believe it or not, it made my faith stronger, it brought me closer to my Christ.

P.s. My husband is alive and well. :)

Tuesday, May 7, 2013

Encouragement - YOUR Weaknesses, HIS Strength

From IntentionalLiving.com


YOUR Weaknesses, HIS Strength

Cerebral Palsy patient, 14-year-old Jack Carroll, was a contestant on Britain’s Got Talent, and pushed his walker onto the stage to entertain the crowd. When asked to tell a little bit more about himself, he replied, “I’m a professional gymnast!” The tension snapped like a twig and the crowd burst into roars of laughter.

Backstage, before his audition, Jack had recounted, “I use Cerebral Palsy in my act because a lot of times, in comedy, your weaknesses are your strengths.” What a powerful concept!

The simplicity of Jack’s idea can be instrumental in your walk with God. He is the only one who knows your heart, your mind and your inner workings. He can “raise in power” what you do in weakness to truly change your life (1 Corinthians 15:42).

He knows you, and He knows your heart. Be encouraged in His strength, despite your weakness.

Today’s One Thing

Are you willing to surrender a personal weakness to God so He can turn it into a strength?

Go Deeper

1 Corinthians 15:35-49; 2 Corinthians 12:1-10